Reconnect and Repair Your Relationship with your Partner!

What Happened to Us?

Do you find yourself wondering what happened to the person you fell in love with?  Do you remember a time when you enjoyed each other’s company?  

When you were able to communicate without hurting feelings or causing conflict.  Now, even your most well-intentioned efforts to connect can quickly turn into arguments; sometimes leaving an emotional hangover that lasts for days.  It feels safer and seems easier to keep conversations focused on the logistics of daily life and avoid the deeper topics all together.

This is not How It Should Feel

You are tired of feeling lonely in your relationship.  You want to feel like you matter to your partner; you want to be seen, appreciated, respected, and loved.  You want to feel alive again in your relationship – you deserve more.

You have worked hard to build a life together, but it has not turned out to be what you expected.  Maybe you have considered separating or even divorce, although that thought is overwhelming.  You don’t know what to do, but you do know that things need to change.

What Can We Do?

I help couples discover patterns that keep them trapped in repetitive cycles of discord.  In our work together, we will explore the origin of the behaviors that are a source of discontent, so that both partners develop a deeper understanding of themselves and each other.

 I help couples learn to communicate more effectively by recognizing the stories that we tell ourselves and to build awareness around the unconscious reactions that predictably result in disharmony.  We will focus on discovering the truth behind thoughts, feelings, and behaviors to provide a clearer path to a more fulfilling relationship.

Start Rebuilding Your Connection

If you are tired of arguing; if you are tired of feeling resentful and disconnected – it may be the right time to take a positive step towards change.

Marriage is not easy, and it does not always feel fair.  However, it is often worth the effort to learn the skills to better connect with your partner.  A deeper, more meaningful connection is available to you – it’s time to rediscover your partner and yourself.

Call me at 469-214-5888 to schedule a 15-minute consultation to find out how we can help you build a healthier connection to your partner.  There is no cost for this consultation.